Ok Ted, what? Odds are this dude didn’t sell and get moved a stove in less than 45 minutes. I assume you are talking about this.
So first with money means first come first serve. If you take all day to get there it isn’t a scam, you just lost. Deal with it. Nobody owes you gas or tolls. And what the hell does “gotta cook supper before u get stove” mean anyway?